September 5, 2012

Transformation...finding the right path

You all may have noticed that my crafting has slowed down a lot over the last couple of months.  Mostly that's been due to my having to travel back and forth to Sydney to help care for my mother who has been very sick.  Having just moved into an apartment by myself has also had a lot to do with it.  I am now paying much higher rent than I used to which has left me a bit strapped for cash and sadly, I was getting almost no sales (I wasn't even making enough to pay for the monthly site fee) on my web-store so I had to give it up.  I have now reached a stage where I am not making enough extra cash to cover the purchase of more supplies and that means I wont be spontaneously crafting much from now on.  This saddens me because I really wanted to make the web-store work.  But I'm keeping a positive frame of mind and am looking at it as a sign that its just not meant to be.

I have just started taking knitting commissions to help supplement my, admittedly low income.  I charge $12 an hour plus the cost of whichever of my handspun yarns you want to use, or I am happy to use your yarn.  All is open to negotiation and I will always endeavour to work out a price/system that is reasonable for both of us.  I generally only take orders for lace knitting at this point.  If you would like me to knit something for you please feel free to contact me on FB or by email.

As most of you are aware by now,  my life is taking a new (or old, depending how you look at it) direction and I am planning on going back to Uni next year to study art.  I have been working almost every day to dust off my extremely rusty skills.  I am having a hard time reconnecting with my inner artist and this is incredibly frustrating but I will persevere and I hope that soon the penny will drop and I will be back to my accustomed skill level.  Accordingly, this blog has undergone yet another transformation into an art and craft blog.  If you are not interested in this transformation I will totally understand but I hope all of you will stay with me and support this change.  Those of you who decide to stay with me are welcome, of course, to comment and have dialogue about what you see here but please remember that all images of artworks shown here are protected by international copyright and intellectual property laws so you may not reproduce them in any format without my express written permission...which, to protect my work, I am sorry to say will not be forthcoming.  I hope that you will continue to link to my blog (text links only please) and share it with your friends as much as you like.

That's it from me for now.  I think its time to get back to the drawing board.  Have fun till next time :oD

August 3, 2012

Misogyny goes both ways

I saw the above image on FB this morning. As expected there was, of course, the requisite heated discussion about what it means from a feminists point of view, and sadly, most of the women seemed to focus on how insulting this image was towards larger women.  From a purely physical perspective mind you. There was a lot of talk about how both women were beautiful…so there!  Also there was some talk about what being fat meant from an anthropological stance.  A couple of people went so far as to discuss the concept that reaching for her feet meant the big girl was trying to exercise and thereby reach the pinnacle of physical beauty.  There was a lot of back and forth and admittedly, there were a few well thought out articulate comments about how feminism and equality are out of sync (and more on that later).  But forget the sexualisation of the women.  That didn’t even come into consideration - not once did anyone address the idea that from a truly feminist point of view, both of these images are unacceptable. 

Let’s look at why …

On the left we have a moderately attractive (by popular media standards) girl in cute lingerie, with some bangin’ curves.  She is provocatively (but not glaringly so) arranged upon a comfy looking bed. This image is bright and vibrant and looks quite nice.

On the right we have a rather dangerously overweight (from a health perspective) woman who is naked.  She is posing in a way that covers up parts of her anatomy on a bare, (possibly cold), hard wooden floor. The image is dull and colourless and somewhat grainy.

Now let’s think about the words that come to mind when we look at these images. 

The image of the ‘curvy’ girl looks vibrant.  Think how soft the bed looks, how smooth her skin looks and see how her body language is open.  She is sexy and could be considered by some to be the ultimate in femininity because of that.  From a designers viewpoint this image is meant to appeal to the viewer on the most sensual of levels.

The image of the larger girl is washed out.  The lack of colour makes the image seem somewhat depressing and dull.  Her body language is closed – she is covering up, almost as if she is trying to hide her body - like she should be ashamed somehow because she doesn’t meet the current accepted perception of physical beauty.  This image is designed to be unappealing to the eye.  It is meant to make you reject it.

Now I’m no advertising exec but it seemed instantly clear to me that this image is designed to do two things:

One: it is designed to tweak that part of  female brains that screams to us all that we must conform.  We must bust our asses to meet the standards of beauty that are set for us by the mass media.  If we do not, we must feel bad about it, and ourselves.  By not conforming to the dictate that we must be thin to be beautiful, and therefore loveable by men we are denying our right to have healthy self esteem.  WTF? 

Two: this image is designed to spark controversy.  In that regard, it achieved its goal.  It was designed to make modern feminists (by which I mean the non-thinking, blindly-following types) jump up and down and in doing so ignore the underlying message that women are nothing more than sex objects put on this planet for the sexual gratification of men. 

Now I don’t know about you, but I was under the impression that this very issue was the underlying reason for the feminist movement in the first place.  Did I miss something?

So it achieved its goal.  There were a number of knee-jerk responses to the image.  Here, please feel free to read some of the comments that I found particularly interesting (please note F=Female poster, M=Male poster.  S=Me. All quotes are verbatim).

F – “Only a misogynist would think that a feminist is "dumb". We're trying hard to lift men out of their traditional roles also.”
– denial, not just a river in Egypt anymore. Apparently
F – “It's misogynistic, indeed. And ignorant.”
 – well thanks for that in depth analysis.
F – “There are dumb feminists? Don't think so. “
 – here’s looking at you sweetheart. O.o
M – “Boys want girls, men want women. Girls are skinny, women have a lot more variety."
 – Wow. Thanks for that. Cos you know, what boys/men want is right up there on my list of priorities.
Missing the point entirely much?

Like I mentioned a little earlier, there were also a goodly number of well thought out intelligent responses, which really did give me hope for the future of our kind.  Some of my favourites…

M – “This is just evidence of privileged men thinking that women should define their self-worth by whether men find them attractive.”
M – “Anthropologically: In times of scarcity (human society before institutional agriculture), larger people are viewed (rightly) as more successful and therefore more desirable.

In times of abundance, those who overindulge to the point that their health is compromised (to any extent) are viewed (rightly) as less successful.  From either angle, the desirable trait is always Healthy.
That's why we find beauty in visual symmetry, fitness, and ability. Any trait which compromises any or all of those will reduce the individual's attractiveness to the instinctive brain.”
M – “Feminists want all women to be respected and treated like any other person. I respect women, yet have, like any other man, my own idea of beauty. A feminist would say that all women are beautiful in their own way. A dumb feminist would say that all women have to be celebrated as beautiful. A dumb feminist would say that for a man to find the larger woman ugly is misogynistic, when it is simply a matter of choice. A smart feminist would say for a man to find the larger woman ugly is his problem and he's missing out.”
And my absolute favourite…

M - “This doesn't characterize feminists. It distinguishes dumb ones from smart ones by examining how the feminist movement loses credibility when extremists propose standards which are unrealistic.
If you look at the Dove real beauty campaign, it fosters acceptance by presenting a view of beauty that diverges from mainstream media definitions in a specific, but not =strident= manner.
People (even just persons) do not change by teleporting their views. It's not like a financial negotiation where one starts high, the other low, and they meet in the middle. Public opinion has to be cultured, nurtured, and guided, not forced, shamed, and dictated to
This is a legitimate complaint that speaks to a double standard whereby anything women use to characterize men is okay - all is fair. But turnabout is not only no longer fair play - it is outright forbidden. Ask yourself about the last time you saw a man kick a woman in the genitals in a movie to comedic effect. When that happens - you'll have equality. As long as special treatment is demanded, the rift will remain
It is because of extremists in the movement that a huge segment of society has dug in its heels. You'd think the Equal Rights Amendment would be a no brainer, but here we are 40 years later, when an interracial gay marriage is kinda cool rather than a sign of the apocalypse - but still no ERA.
When it's no longer cool for anyone to humiliate anyone, and for everyone to be permitted to poke fun at everyone to the same extent - then we'll have the society that encodes the ERA into its hardware.
The journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step. Demanding immediate teleportation of opinion is ridiculous - and this image ridicules that demand.
Whether it is done in a tasteful manner or not is not the point - the point is minds are changed by choice, not by demand
Which was followed up by this glaringly uninspired (and in my opinion – palm facingly unintelligent) response…

F – “Could we not have men on this thread telling is what they think is acceptable, please? Anthropologically or otherwise, shut the hell up. I'm a cranky fat feminist too. Both images are beautiful..”
Because mens opinions about feminism and what it means in society are unimportant somehow?  I was prompted by this to say my own piece… 
S – “I'm a fat equalist...but not cranky. I like that there are men here discussing their views. That men are even aware of some of the implications of images like this is a sign of progress towards equality to me. As I see it, all are entitled to an opinion. Discouraging 'discussion' is a form of 'gate keeping' which is responsible for a vast majority of men still being disassociated from their feelings - an issue many women complain about but which mostly women are responsible for. Do we really want our men to go back to beating their chests and dragging women around by the hair? Open discussion is the only way to move forward.
It stands to be said; this is just my opinion...I mean no offense. Peace out lovelies.”

S – “PS: in all honesty, I think this image has achieved its purpose. I think it was designed to spark controversy. The marked differences in the portrayal of the two women...the 'more attractive' in colour (vibrant, happy, appealing) but the 'less attractive' in black and white (sad, dull, unappealing)? C'mon peoples...use your noggins. It's supposed to make you all jump up and down and it’s done exactly that. ♥”

Now, although I’ve talked a bit about feminism in this post, I’d really like it to be known that I’m not an out and out feminist.  Yes I’m all for the womens rights movement but in all honesty I consider myself an ‘equalist’.  I want equal rights. For both genders, from both genders.  As was stated in my favourite response to the offending photo…

M – “…This is a legitimate complaint that speaks to a double standard whereby anything women use to characterize men is okay - all is fair. But turnabout is not only no longer fair play - it is outright forbidden. Ask yourself about the last time you saw a man kick a woman in the genitals in a movie to comedic effect. When that happens - you'll have equality. As long as special treatment is demanded, the rift will remain.
When it's no longer cool for anyone to humiliate anyone, and for everyone to be permitted to poke fun at everyone to the same extent - then we'll have the society that encodes the ERA into its hardware...”
This really resonated with me and I agree wholeheartedly.  Why do women today expect equality from men but refuse to give it back in kind?  It’s as if the feminist movement has swung too far into over-compensation.  There IS a double standard used by women to characterise men that we as women would never stand for. 

I too would like to see a movie where a woman was kicked in the crotch for comedic effect.  If it’s OK for men, why not for women?  It does a lot more damage to a guy so why is it portrayed as an acceptable thing for anyone to do?  How often have you seen this done in a movie by another man?  I’m sure they’re out there but I cannot recall a single occasion when while watching a film I saw this act perpetrated by anyone other than a woman.  Yes, admittedly in supposed self-defense.  But still.  It makes you wonder how women can rightfully demand equal treatment but neglect this glaring inequality.

I’m aware that there will be plenty who maintain that it’s a womans only true defense against an aggressive man.  I only agree to a point, there are other alternatives.  That said, it should be acceptable for either both genders, or neither.

So how do we deal with the inequities?  Many women for years have been crying foul; claiming (mostly correctly) that women have been repressed by men for hundreds of years.  But how many of those women have ever recognised their own participation in the active oppression of men?

Think about it.  How many times have you heard a woman, be her mother, aunt, grandmother, sister or even just babysitter tell a male child that ‘only girls cry’?  Why do only girls cry?  For generation upon generation women have been raising their male children to repress their own emotions from a young age.  And then we wonder why men are shut off from their emotions?  Really?  When we have actively been teaching them that the only emotion it is acceptable for them to express is anger? 

Oh sure, there are guys out there who are learning to cry.  But be honest…can you really say you’re comfortable with that?  That at some level it doesn’t make you think that a man is weak if he cries?  Why do we still, in 2012, believe that crying is a sign of weakness in men but a sign of strength in women? Doesn't that strike you as a bit of a double standard?  

Men should be encouraged to emote. They have been living a sort of half life for centuries, cut off from feeling for so long that they don't know how to navigate the mine fields of feeling and relationships.  And then on top of that, we women, who have taught him that its not OK for him to feel anything but anger, bitch about our emotionally crippled partners and moan about how he doesn't do any of the socio-emotional work in our relationship.  Why? Because its too difficult to make the decision to teach our male children how to embrace their emotions and deal with the fall out the way we try to teach our female children?  That my friends is the crux of the issue.  We raise our children to blindly follow example.  To behave automatically without questioning.  And then we cry about inequality.

Sorry ladies but you can’t have it both ways.  If we want equality, true equality, it has to start in raising our children to think differently - to question everything.  To not just accept behaviour because it’s how it has always been done.  Critical thinking (really? google it) is not a new concept but it is definitely one that must be learned. Until we do this, until we teach our children to re-examine all that has gone before us, we have no hope of ever ending the war between the sexes and even less hope of realising true equality.

And again, this all comes down to opinion.  This is my opinion and I'm more than happy to have dialogue about it.  The usual warnings come with nice or go home is what it boils down to.  Adult discussion welcome, childish stamping of feet and name calling is not.

Peace out lovelies  :oD

June 13, 2012

I has a home nao

I read an amusing blog post somewhere on the interwebs this morning and as I was reading the comments I was mildly amused to see this.

I always have a little chuckle when I see people commenting that they are the first commenter because they are invariably the second or third.  It's almost like there is an unwritten law.  As soon as you find yourself typing the words 'I'm the first commenter' the Universe will ensure that someone has beaten you to the punch.  Kind of like Murphys law.

Anyhoo...great news;  I moved into my new apartment yesterday.  I have to wait till the weekend to get my washing machine in and there are a couple of carloads of smallish crap that I have to take over from where I am now but otherwise its done.  I have so many boxes and crates of crap to unpack.  I think I will be unpacking for at least a month.  But I'll get through it and I'm determined to find space for everything.  My most awesome friends from the Central Coast came up and helped me to lift ALL the things yesterday and  I am so grateful to have such wonderful friends. I will assuredly be inviting them for a bang up dinner as soon as I am unpacked and settled.

I had a lovely long hot shower before going to bed last night and I have to say it felt SO good.  It was almost orgasmic it was so good.  lol.

Sadly there is no phone line into my apartment so I'm going to be offline for the next couple of weeks while I try to get that sorted out.  Anyone who needs to contact me should call or txt me if they have my number or otherwise email me at

I'll be back as soon as I can.  In the meantime, have fun and keep smiling. :oD

June 9, 2012

Dont Panic...

Just a quick update today.

A lot has been happening in the last few weeks.  I had a sudden unexpected change to certain living arrangements and had to look for a place to live at the same time as having to move some more of my stuff into storage which meant obtaining a larger storage space than the one that I already had.  That was a particularly busy weekend. I had forgotten just how much stuff I had. O.o

I have been frantically looking at rentals and have to say that in the year and a half since I had my last rental, prices have gone way way up and quality has come way way down.  Due to owning huge furniture I had to be a wee bit picky about what I could take so its been a bit frustrating to find that most of the places on the market wouldn't fit my couch let alone the rest of my stuff.  

I finally found a half house that is both big enough (more or less) and that I can afford (just) and have arranged to sign the lease on the 12th of June.  I cant wait.  Everything I own has been in a paid storage facility for a  year and a half and I'm pretty certain that unpacking is going to feel a little bit like Christmas as I've forgotten half of what I have in the multitude of boxes.  I have had an overwhelming urge to nest in the last couple of months and knowing that I'm three days away from actually being able to begin nesting is a  heady feeling.

I have had to put a hold on all the crafting for a little bit while I get things sorted and hope that I'll manage to unpack fairly quickly once I get everything into my new place.  I want to have an update ready for the web store by the end of June so will be trying to organise a photo shoot with my lovely volunteer models.  In amongst all of this I will be having my birthday which will most likely slip past quietly without me having time to even notice.  ;o)

I've never considered birthdays to be a very big deal, but I would like to point out that this year is the big one.  I'll be 42.  Which anyone out there who has read Douglas Adams will know; is the answer.  So I'm thinking I need to buy a teeshirt with the words 'mostly harmless' and the number 42 on it.  If you've never read any Douglas Adams, you will have no idea what I'm talking about and should completely disregard this paragraph ;o)

Anyhoo, I'm off to get more sorting/packing/organising done. Until next time...dont forget to keep your towel handy.

April 28, 2012


I have spoken a lot about the crafts that I do but I haven't really gotten around to mentioning that I also love to do a bit of painting and drawing.  I began drawing at an early age.  I won my first art competition at the age of 5.  I remember quite clearly that I won a book about pandas.  I loved that book.  I have no idea where it is now but I still remember it fondly.  I think that book might have been the thing that sparked my fascination with Japan and Japanese culture.  But that's a whole other blog post right there ;o)

I was very into art in school.  In high school I entered an inter-school competition and won 2nd prize for my painting of a tiger.  I don't have that painting anymore but I wish I did.  After I left school I moved away from art and started studying computer stuff so that I could get a good job.  But I kept dabbling with my paints in the background.  In 2000 I did a short course run by my local (at the time) gallery called 'watercolour for beginners'.  I. LOVED.IT.  I did some more painting and drawing stuff when I went to TAFE to study design in my early 30's.  Then I went to university to do a science degree and the art once again went on the shelf.

Lately I have been thinking about my art.  I love the crafts, don't get me wrong, but nothing feels like creating something with a brush or pencil.  I REALLY miss painting.  I have so many ideas for things I'd like to paint.  Sadly, I don't have any room where I am to set up my easel (what? Of COURSE I own an easel :oP).  But it has got me thinking about where I want my life to go in the next few years. 

Yes, I'll always do the craft thing and hopefully I will keep developing my ideas there. But I have BIG plans for my soft sculptures.  Big BIG plans.  Sadly, I just don't have any training in sculpture and I'd really like to take some time to dust off my painting and drawing skills (and maybe develop some new ones along the way).  Sooooo...I've decided to go back to university.  Part time if I can.  I'm going to apply for the Bachelor of Fine Arts at University of Newcastle for the beginning of next year.  This means I'll get to learn some new painting techniques but it also means that I can take some directed courses in soft sculpture. Now that's something to get excited about :oD

Here are some photos of work I've done in the past for you to enjoy.  Please remember that these are all original artworks of mine and as such they are protected by international copyright and intellectual property laws.  Please don't reproduce them ANYWHERE.  You can link to them but please dont steal my work.  Thanks.

Above are three charcoal nudes that I did in 2001.  I had never used charcoal before this and I loved it.  I really love the charcoal nude.  There is an elegance to it that you don't find in nudes done with other mediums.

These are the watercolours I did during my beginners course.  They are in order from first to last.  I had never had a proper lesson in painting before this and I really enjoyed it.

Thanks for stopping by to see whats happening.  I'll be back soon. :oD

April 24, 2012

For entertainments sake

(Sung vaguely to the tune of Wild Thing by The Troggs)

Penny Fleece

You make my fingers bleed

You make everything, greasy

Penny fleece, washing you brings me peace

You're so soft and so fluffy

Penny Fleece, I think I love ewe

Ok, yes, admittedly I got the general idea (song) from another blog but I put my own spin on it (if you'll pardon the pun).

April 18, 2012

Panicky passengers and a world record attempt

Well a lot has happened in the last few weeks so I figured it was time for an update.

Not long ago I developed a toy that I called 'Panicky Passengers'.  They have, happily proven to be incredibly popular and I've managed to develop two more styles to add to my range.  Sadly I'm having trouble getting some decent felt so I cant offer them on the web store just yet but they will be available for pre-order as soon as I can solve my felt supply issues.  Here are the ones I have made (sorry, already sold) so far.

I hope to be able to offer these in assorted colour combinations at some point but this will obviously depend on what felt I can get my hands on.

I also recently started making some graphics for the new FB timeline layout which I've made available to anyone who wants to use them.  You can find them here.

I have made a couple of new Feltoonies (TM). One was a small yellow cat sculpture with a cute butterfly on its nose (sorry, already sold) and the other is a cute little Grandmotherly Kitty with a hand knitted shawl and a crocheted bag of knitting supplies.  She is still available over on my web store if you are interested and there are lots of progress pics in the WIPs folder on the FB page if you'd like to see her taking shape.  I'm  very happy with how she turned out.

Over the Easter long weekend I traveled down to Sydney to meet up with my fabulous friend Charly from IxCHeL and some other lovely ladies.  Charly organised a new world record attempt at the Royal Easter Show for our team which was so much fun.  Here is a video of what we did.

It was LOADS of fun and it was so awesome to hang out with all the girls and play with the bunnies.  I think we should get together as often as possible. Lol.  Please pop over to Charlys blog to read all about our world record attempt.  While you're there, why dont you snaffle some yummy bunny yarn ;o)

So thats it from me for now.  I'm off to work on a new knitted project which I will hopefully be able to show to you next time :oD

Thanks for stopping by 

March 5, 2012

Time for a catch up

I've been busy busy busy lately.  I've been working on some new concepts for my store. Some of which are ready to go and some that still need a little tweaking.  I have a million and one things going on here all at once.  But I'm still managing to find a little spinning time. Priorities people ;o)

I recently designed a terrified looking little bunneh which has suction cups on his hands so he can be attached to your window.  I've called them 'Panicky Passengers' because they look so scared that they should go in the back of my your car. I need to take some better photos of them but atm I dont have a good space for that so here's what I've got.

These guys will go in the store after they've made the trip to Sydney with me in April.  If there are any left.  If there aren't, don't fret, there will be more.  Lots more.

I've been spinning up some huge 200g quantities of yarn.  Generally I just take two 100g braids, spin them and then ply them together.  Obviously this has meant that I've had to acquire a jumbo ball winder so I grabbed one from the most awesome Mandie over at Ewe Give Me The Knits.  As always, brilliant service and a great product.  Here's some of the yarn I've been making...  

My new Strauch Jumbo Ball Winder
Isnt it awesome?

And finally, I've been having a go at super coils.  I tried these once before and didnt quite get them right.  Here is my second attempt.  Followed by my third attempt.

I think I have got them right but while making these I realised I just didn't enjoy the process.  Oh well.  I think I'll use the first lot (150m in total from 512g of fibre O.O) to make a big smooshy cowl.  The second lot is enough for a hat band.  Maybe.

There are obviously lots and lots of other things I've been doing but I haven't got anything at a stage where I'm ready to take photos so I'm afraid they'll have to wait for another post.  Thanks for stopping by for a quick catch up.  See you next time :oD

February 14, 2012


I have been quietly tinkering away on a dedicated web store for a couple of months now.  Today it went live (twenty seconds ago actually) and to celebrate I'm having a surprise Valentines Day sale.  With a whopping 25% off all hand woven garments.  Be quick or miss out folks.  Happy Valentines Day! <3

Valentines Day Downer

Today is Valentines Day.  This 'special' day means a lot to so many people.  There's the undeniable commercial promise for retailers of course (and don't get me started on that one - lol).  But the really big draw card for the day is the supposed romantic element.  Some couples even look forward to the day with a fervor that approaches fanaticism which seems a little unhealthy and unrealistic to me but at least they can look forward to a few moments of excitement.  For me it is an unfortunate reminder of one of the worst mistakes I ever made.

Twelve years ago today I got married.  A week before I'd realised I didn't actually want to get married but we'd spent so much money and had so many people counting on the day that I couldn't back out of it like I wanted to.  Getting married on Valentines Day was my nod to the romance that is supposed to be involved in getting married.  A bit of a joke really considering romance is something I'm not terribly familiar with.  And sadly, every year on this day, I experience the same regret.  I try to not think about the 'event' but you cant just forget your wedding day (no matter how much of a farce it was).   Especially when Valentines day is such a big deal to most people.  Its a handy reminder :o/

Consequently Valentines Day is a bit of a non event for me every year.  My current partner and I try to make at least a minimal effort with by doing the card thing.   We keep telling ourselves that we're keeping the real effort for our anniversary which is in March but we both know its because the day just reminds me of the most colossal stupidity I've ever experienced. Its all a bit of a downer really.

While I'd like to wish everyone a happy V Day, I'm afraid my heart wouldn't be in it.  Sadly as I'm technically still married its my wedding anniversary.  Ugh.  

Maybe I should try to organise my divorce so it comes through on the same day...that might take some of the sting out. ;o)

February 3, 2012


I have been invited to participate at the Sydney Royal Easter Show by the lovely Charly from Ixchel in April this year.  There will be a team of people participating in some pretty special events (more info here) and I'm so excited to be a part of it.  

Of course, the SRES is a hugely prestigious affair with people coming from all over the world to participate and spectate.  Obviously I want to make the most of this once in a lifetime (for me) event.  It's a great opportunity to get my name and product out there so I have been rushing about madly trying to put together appropriate items to take with me. Sadly, I've been putting too much pressure on myself to get  things done 'liek nao' and consequently I'm not really getting anywhere.  On top of that, I've been so caught up in getting my business to start producing an income that things have become a bit panicked which of course means I'm achieving exactly nothing.

So I've decided that it would be better if I just relax.  Today I'm sitting back and breathing. There's no rush.  I have an income that I can survive on for now so there is plenty of time for the business to evolve naturally.  I definitely have lots of plans for the business but there is no reason they all have to come to fruition this instant. 

Of course now that I've given myself permission to stop stressing over things, I'm sure that the creative process (and progress) will begin to flow smoothly once again.  

As for the Easter show, I already have plenty of things to take with me so there's no need to panic about getting a heap of stuff made in the next few weeks. If I manage to come up with a few more things to showcase my creativity that would be awesome but if I don't, I'm not going to fret about it.

It feels SO good to stop stressing. :o)    

January 2, 2012

And it begins...

It has begun.  The Etsy Shop is LIVE (see the little etsy mini over on the right there? Awesome right?).  I've already had my first sale! OMG its all so exciting :oD  

Dont forget to zip by the FB page to grab the coupon code for your 20% store wide discount for this week.  If you're an Australian resident you can pay by direct deposit.  International buyers can pay into my paymate account using their credit or debit cards.  For internationals, an invoice will have to be sent before payment can be made.  Sorry for this small inconvenience folks but its my only option at this point.  But its all happening.  Grab yourself a nice cuppa, your favourite snaffling slippers and come check out my listings :oD

Thanks so much again for all your support.  I cannot tell you how much it means to me :oD

January 1, 2012

...and in addition

I would like to add that sharing this stuff with all of you, goes against every fibre of my being.  It's hard for me to tell the public in general this stuff.  It is hard for any person suffering depression or mental illness to tell the people closest to them this stuff.  This too is a part of the therapy thing  (seriously, my shrink told me I have to 'engage' more...I'm new at this, I may occasionally over compensate. lol).  But also, I know that all of you totally understand this :o)

Happy New Year Everyone!

Well, its 1st January 2012.  That kind of blows me away the teensiest bit.  I know so many of you can relate.  Where have all the years gone?  #momentofawe  This year, while not my best year ever has certainly been one of the biggest for me on so many levels.

I've had some pretty interesting health issues crop up.  And in the past, that would have rendered me fairly useless to the world at large.  But this year I've also made some staggering progress in terms of my self development.  

Not many people know that I've had a life long case of PTSD and depression.  For these reasons I cant work a 'normal' 9 to 5.  But, I'm a pretty darn private person though so that's not really a surprise.  I'm 'coming out' now because I have made so many amazing new friends this year.  And some of them also suffer from a mental illness.  Having a mental illness can end your life.  To survive every day is an achievement for some.  No one should treat this lightly or as if it was some kind of shameful disease.   Having a mental illness and/or depression is a very big deal.  I want to show my other friends, who struggle daily my support by sharing this part of myself with you. :oD

Happily, I have found an amazing psychologist.  In the last year she has helped me learn whole new coping strategies and has encouraged me to take more interest in myself.  This has been life changing for me.  So much so that I've decided to take back control of my life, for the first time ever.  This feels pretty damn amazing.

In the last four or five weeks I've started seeing an exercise physiologist.  To help me lose weight, regain my fitness and conquer some of my other health issues.  Diabetes being first on the list.  And I am determined to make this happen.  I am so focused on achieving these goals that my entire outlook has changed.  This is a good, good thing.

This new perspective has allowed me to finally accept what I'm supposed to be doing.  I have found my calling and she is named 'fibre hoar'.  I'm embracing her, and the sisterhood of fibre hoars out there in general. :oD 

And this also is in part to the amazing, supportive, generous of spirit people who have, happily, entered my life.  I had forgotten what it meant to count someone a true friend.  It feels very nice to be able to do this again.  So thank you.  Thank you all for your continued support, encouragement and friendship.  You have all saved me on levels that I cannot describe.

I wish you all peace, love and wonderful times for 2012 and beyond.  Happy New Year to you all.